I learn something today

Never try to go forcing some jerks to un-jerkify,
Because you will fail.
The best way to deal with jerks is not to even bother dealing with jerks at all.

I can't say more, but I suddenly understand it all.
Doesn't matter how good a first impression can be,
if you don't work on it, the other bad impression will definitely catch up.

So, allow me to say this:

You,
Are So Fired.

Good luck on your soul searching, I have no time to waste anymore.